The hen party used to be a small gathering of friends at home but now hen parties are big nights out, with fancy dress, party games, cocktails and even male strippers!

today's hen party quote:
...I have learned that only two things are necessary to keep one's wife happy. First, let her think she's having her own way. And second, let her have it -Lyndon B. Johnson

1) Keep the alcohol under control.  Many hen nights have been ruined by the bride getting too drunk too early, and collapsing in the corner. 

2) Have a plan for the whole evening.  It's easy to assume that you'll start at a bar, and then "find a club" - if it's a cool evening the last thing you want is to be wandering aimlessly around town at the end of the hen do. 

3) If you want to be a bit naughty or outrageous, it may be best to travel away from your home town.  You don't want to bump into your old headmistress as you stagger along the street!   And hotels can be very reasonable.

1) Shopping.  Most modern cities have great shopping, and most girls love to shop!  Is the shopping in Kilburn really good, or would it be more fun to go somewhere new?

2) Pampering.  Spa days and spa treatments are a wonderful way to relax and spend time with your friends.  Manicures, massages, Jacuzzis...

3) Fun gifts.  Nothing better than embarrassing the hen with a few naughty gifts - just decide whether she will enjoy the thrill of opening them in a public place or not!